iPhone is off but still shows in finder as syncing
iPhone 11 Pro (ios 14.4) always shows as "syncing" in finder (Big Sur 11.2.2). This occurs even when turned off or not on the same network, i.e. away from home. I've tried turning of the sync/backup, turning off the phone and even force quit finder/reload and it is still there. So, in order to do updates which require a restart I have to turn my mini off by holding the power button because every time I try to restart via menus or after an update I get an error message saying an ios device is still being synced. Any ideas about to stop this? Thanks
iPhone 11 Pro