if you think whether you should by macbook or windows laptop, it is highly dependant on personal preferance. You need to decide what is more important to you: better price to spec ratio on windows laptop, or optimisation, sleekness and ecosystem on macbook. If you have an iphone, you will definitely appreciate the software integration like airdrop, imessages and so on. Also now, m1 macbooks are kinda breaking the rule, that windows laptops has better cost to performance ratio. M1 beats most of its windows competitors in that price range, and even outperforms more expensive windows laptops.
If your are looking into m1 macbooks, the difference in performance between pro and air in day to day use is almost non-existent. Only difference you will notice is that macbook pro (applies to intel macbooks as well) has a touchbar (some hate it, some love it), a bit brighter screen and wider colour gamut (it isn't big difference enough to justify extra cost if you are not using it for professional photo editing and colour-grading).
If still talking about m1, macbook air doesn't have cooling fan, but if you are not using high cpu load tasks the fan (that is on macbook pro) won't turn on anyway. M1 macbooks are really optimised.
If, however, you are looking into older intel macbooks, the performance gap is much bigger. On intel macbook air the fan will be on almost constantly and doing higher intensity tasks will cause it to reach higher temperatures.
All in all, I think that base model m1 macbook air is the best bang for your buck considering what you will be using it for. It's going to be the most responsive computer you have used, and it will handle any task you throw at it