This is primarily a user-to-user support forum; other Apple users like you. If you want to buy Apple Lightning headphones that are compatible with the SE, see: EarPods with Lightning Connector - Apple
Also see the following from https://www.apple.com/shop/buy-iphone/iphone-se
What’s in the Box
- iPhone
- USB-C to Lightning Cable
As part of our efforts to reach our environmental goals, iPhone SE does not include a power adapter or EarPods. Included in the box is a USB‑C to Lightning cable that supports fast charging and is compatible with USB‑C power adapters and computer ports.
We encourage you to re‑use your current USB‑A to Lightning cables, power adapters, and headphones which are compatible with this iPhone. But if you need any new Apple power adapters or headphones, they are available for purchase.