Can I reset my disabled iPhone SE from my ipad

You have to do this: https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT204306

Unfortunately, it is not possible to restore your iPhone from your iPad.

If you want to do a restore, then you need either a PC with iTunes, or a Mac.

You can read how to make a Restore:

https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201263

IPhone is disabled. IPad works fine. Will you please activate my IPhone, pretty please.