How to delete or remove my icloud from a iPhone

Not the same question as being resolved in this topic. Out of courtesy to the original poster you should normally start a new topic with your question. However, How to request access to a deceased family member's Apple accounts - Apple Support

How to delete or remove my icloud from a iPhone

Sign out of iCloud on your iPhone, iPad, iPod touch, Apple TV, or Mac - Apple Support

i was giving an iphone by a relative who is now dead, and as i went to update it, i was asked to type the persons icloud and password before i could activate it