I am looking for a text message
Hello how can I find a text from 5 days ago that was deleted with the persons name
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If you are using iCloud Syncing for Messages, once deleted, the messages is gone for good.
If you are not using iCloud Syncing and you have a backup that contains the message, you can restore your phone to that backup.
Restore your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch from a backup - Apple Support
Note that restoring from a backup will overwrite everything currently on the phone.