why is it not allowed to see the kurdistan flag as an emoji?

Why questions can't be answered here on this user to user only forum.

Apple does NOT create emoji. The Unicode Consortium does.

Suggestions for emoji can be shared with them here --> http://unicode.org/emoji/proposals.html

This is a user-to-user forum; no one here can answer a question that begins “Why”. The Unicode Consortium (unicode.org) defines emoji, so they are who you have to ask. But the reason might be that Kurdistan is not recognized as a country, it is a geographical region by international definition. Kosovo is in a similar situation.

The Unicode Consortium has created an emoji for it, but no device manufacturer has implemented it. Contact the vendors.

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