Hello Bluemoon4480,
It sounds as though your Apple Watch isn’t mirroring the Focus settings you have enabled on your iPhone. Apple Support Communities is a great place for help!
If you haven’t already take a look at the following article to confirm the settings are correct for the Apple Watch to mirror your iPhone.
Notifications on your Apple Watch
If the settings appear correctly the next step would be to verify the Focus settings on the watch. You can find more information about using Focus on your Apple Watch in the article below.
Use Focus on Apple Watch
Have a great day!