i keep getting cant transfer data when trying to transfer data on to my new iphone 13 pro

Try using one of the backup methods to transfer your data:

Transfer data from your previous iOS or iPadOS device to your new iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch - Apple Support

I had the same problem trying to transfer data from iphone XR to Iphone 13 Pro. Keep getting Cannot transfer message.

I then decided to update my XR to the latest software update, 15.1. Viola, that did the trick. Transfer was successful after both iphones are using same version of the software. Probably because IOS 15 was such a big upgrade.