It’s not updating it’s taking to long to request for update

Connect to a WiFi network and attempt the update again.

A hotspot connection will not work.

You need to connect to a WiFi signal, not a hotspot.

Here is the criteria that must be met for an upgrade -

Make sure you:

• Are using a WiFi connection (not a hotspot).

• Have your battery charged at least 50%. Better yet, keep it plugged in during the update.

• Are not using a VPN connection.

• Do not have power save mode turned on.

• Do not have a beta version installed.

• You have at least 6 gigs of storage available.

You can also check out this article for help -

If your iPhone, iPad or iPod touch won’t update

https://support.apple.com/en-gb/HT201435