iOS 15 and Homekit

Since iOS 15 was installed on my iPhone and iPad, Homekit is pretty much useless.

I am getting CONSTANT "Updating" CONSTANT "No Response" and I am unable to get my wife back onto our Home via her iPhone that was just updated to 15.0.2- just keeps spinning trying to accept my invite.

I recently got a new router, and no issues at all there. When the lights and plugs go through their 1 minute update/response routine, they will work just fine. Then 5 minutes later update again.

I have also gone through the and reset EVERY item I have, setup a new home - treated it like a new setup from the start. And still have the issues.

Apple support on Twitter said I need to restart my devices, did that about a dozen times.

I know Apple does not care about Homekit since they make no money off it, but for those of us that use it, would be nice if you gave it some love so things work.

I am at my wits end trying to deal with this, not to mention the other issues I have with iOS 15. Quality has been dropping for years now, real shame.