Screen flicker started during Monterey upgrade
My spouse just updated her 6 month old Mac Mini to Monterey. During the update, and most of the time after, the screen flickers. The only monitor appears to be rapidly alternating between two different screens: what it should be seeing, and, the screen as it appeared a while ago while she was on Facebook reading about Star Wars. The Facebook/Star Wars image never changes. It's possible to use, because it is often showing what it should, but it certainly isn't pleasant.
I looked around online, and have tried booting, resetting PRAM or NVRAM with command-p-q, unplugging the monitor cable, power cycling the monitor, reducing the refresh rate, turning off transparency in Accessibility, and whatever else I found that doesn't require getting new equipment.
Other ideas I've found: replace the monitor cable with a different brand, use a different port on the Mini, add a port adapter and use different ports at one end or the other with a different cable, and replace the whole monitor with a different brand.
These all seem to be just guesses at all things that might change how the display works.
What is going wrong?
How do I settle this???
I have to start pulling things out of her crowded and complex furniture setup to find more details about the cable, monitor, and port being used. Don't even know the monitor brand at the moment. I wish I had some idea what was malfunctioning.
Thanks!
Mac mini 2018 or later