How can I get rid of unauthorized MDM connotations

Thanks for your responses, I was thinking the same, but turns out it can happen , and it happened month before I even noticed something , it’s a long story , at this point I really don’t know where to go and what to do, I’ve been everywhere, literally even service and e they all connected in one huge net , using legitimate services , cloud , remote , services it’s very very sophisticated, the only day when was nothing happening in my devices was when AWS cloud services went down on east cost like 4-5 days ago it’s kinda botnet kinda something else , how do I know ? There is a lot of signs if you know where to look for ,and the more you look and mess with them the more they punish , by changing passwords, messing traffic , and many other ways , besides that they just using our residential ip , for they needs , I wrote citizens lab, many other forums and bleeping computer guys , went to ethical hacking black hat hackers trying to speak with admins if I can announce bounty for it, I got no responses, well may be I got , but they deleting the emails , at the beginning I thought it’s regular crypto mining malware , then it’s escalated to change group policies in my pc to unimaginable levels , and having custom policy rules made for every little detail, some of them were so powerful that there was message from Microsoft that it’s for high skilled analysts and should not be used in public , and that command overruns highest security servers firewall and other authority commands , that day nothing happened to apple devices and Mac , two days later later apple products got it, and since November 9 I am living with it , then I thought it’s kinda botnet, and google announced that they successfully terminated highly skilled Russian botnet CC , but it will come back because of automatic rules and commands and encryption, and it did , well today I found out what is exactly is ,because our 4 family iPhones have been restored many times even in DFU mode , but our daughters wasn’t , and I found logs from 09/11 when it’s started and how and the name was there , well it’s doesn’t sound good , and I didn’t even want to mention that spyware name here Why would someone do something that for regular guy ? I have no answer , I don’t know who our neighbors are , what they do , why ? I don’t know why I spoke with my friend he said only two ways live without internet for month or so , and they can take out of they list , or make another network with Ethernet , wipe out machines and bring slowly over there , but can’t use Wi-Fi , and login our clouds browsers and anywhere , but thats what when we thought it’s botnet , today I found out it’s not

Hi. thanks for your response its not that kind of MDM, I am the original owner, it’s unauthorized remote access, to my devices through various cloud and sharing services

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