how i can find my apple id password

Check your web browser autofill entries and other records, or use Apple's iForgot service, or contact their Account Security team, or if you're the unit's original owner and have encountered the activation lock, click here and submit an unlock request.

Unless there's a copy of the password at your end, it can't be recovered and needs to be reset. The one on Apple's servers has been run through a one-way encryption algorithm.

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