How to turn of when it tells people you have notifications silenced

See the following from Use Focus on your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch - Apple Support

Share your Focus status

When you set up a Focus, you can turn on Share Focus Status so that apps display to people who message you that you have notifications silenced. The apps only know that you have notifications silenced. Apps don't know which Focus you have turned on, so the name is never shared. Focus status is shared in apps when you have a Focus turned on and after you give an app permission. 

To turn Focus Status on: 

1. Go to Settings > Focus. 
2. Select the Focus you set up. 
3. Tap Focus Status, then turn it on.

This process doesn't work for me. I have checked all my Apple devices have no Focus settings enabled. It's driving everyone nuts! I think it's a bug.