i cant change my mail passeorf

Are you trying to change your Apple ID email address? What happens when you try? Error message(s)?

Note the restrictions in the article.

Apple ID Name Change.  *

Make sure you turn of Find My Phone before signing out of the old ID. Once signed out and Find My Phone is off, then sign in with the new ID, then turn Find My Phone back on.

 What to do after you change your Apple ID or password - Apple Support  *  I suggest doing this before you change your Apple ID or password.