Hi johna23,
It sounds like you're trying to upgrade iCloud storage plans. We're glad you've joined us in Apple Support Communities. Let's see if this helps.
It looks like you've had the chance to review Update your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch. That's a great start, but we have some additional advice for you.
If you're being prompted to upgrade your iCloud storage first, follow the steps in the section, "Upgrade to iCloud+ from any device" in Upgrade to iCloud+. You may be getting this message if there's limited room in your current iCloud storage.
If the issue remains after following the above advice, let us know what steps you had a chance to try.
We hope that helps with your question and take care!