Hi
Not totally clear - copied to library on this internal HD - just to confirm the library is on your system drive, correct?
Increasing instability suggests a damaged library:
Have you ever used any speed up or clean up apps, or duplicate removal apps? Many of these are not "photos library aware" and can cause damage. Libraries can also be damaged by being stored on an incompatible volume, or on a networked location, or a different cloud service (such as dropbox). (again, where is your library stored?). Or just simple drive failure or faults on parts of the drive.
Before trying anything else though, it might be worth trying a restart in safe mode which can sometimes fix random glitchyness.
Start up your Mac in safe mode – Apple Support (UK)
If that doesn't help, then the easiest way to eliminate library damage as the problem (if everthing you need is in iCloud) will be to sync iCloud with a new empty library. If you want to try that, here's how:
1 - Create a new EMPTY library in your pictures folder. (Hold down the option key while starting photos, and click "create new". Name it something that is easy to recognise).
2 - Open the new empty library in photos. (it should open after you click "create new" but if not, use the option key start again, and select the new library from the list.)
3 - In photos preferences set it to the system library (click the circled button)
4 - In photos preferences iCloud - turn iCloud on with download originals.
5 - Wait - for photos to download all your images from iCloud into your freshly minted library. It may take some time - possibly days. Leave the mac on with photos open and sleep disabled while it is doing it.