If they know your Apple ID and password, they can log into your Apple ID on their device and see your messages, data synced to iCloud, and other information.
You might want to consider changing your password and making sure it is a strong one. You can also add 2 Factor Authentication to your account for more security. If the attempts continue, you might want to consider a name change.
Link to contact Apple Support in the article.
Apple ID has been compromised. *
Security and your Apple ID. *
Device and Data Access when Personal Safety is At Risk -
Checklist: If you want to see if anyone else has access to your device or accounts *
Apple ID Password Change. -
Note the restrictions in the article.
Apple ID Name Change. *
Make sure you turn of Find My Phone before signing out of the old ID. Once signed out and Find My Phone is off, then sign in with the new ID, then turn Find My Phone back on.
What to do after you change your Apple ID or password - Apple Support * I suggest doing this before you change your Apple ID or password.
Apple ID -Two-factor authentication *
Two Factor Authentification availability. *
2 Factor Authentication - How to generate a recovery key. *
Apple ID - Using app-specific passwords. *
Apple ID - Two Step Verifications FAQ *