Where is the i icon to pair my apple phone with my Apple Watch?

Apparently I am not asking the right question. My watch is paired with my phone. But it is not showing up in the phone when I go to the watch app, and I no longer get the phone calls from my phone on the watch. Except for “spam risk” calls that come in through the watch, but don’t ring on the phone. Neither do the calls on the phone come in on the watch? Not sure what to do

Thank you, thank you, thank you! Didn’t have to go to my child to fix. I have been asking for months and she is always to busy!