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Have you closed the Find My app on all devices and restarted them? These steps can help reset that connection between the devices and may be helpful! Quit and reopen an app on iPad - Apple Support
Quit and reopen an app on iPad
If an app isn’t responding, you can quit it and then reopen it to try and resolve the issue. (Typically, there’s no reason to quit an app; quitting it doesn’t save battery power, for example.)
1. To quit an app, open the App Switcher, then swipe up on the app.
2. To reopen the app, go to the Home Screen (or the App Library), then tap the app.
Once closed, please restart all devices. Then, check to see that all devices are updated. Depending on the models you have, there may or may not be an update available: Update your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch - Apple Support
Let us know how that goes.
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