Lighting up when unplugging

I want the iPhone to stop lighting up when I remove from charger (it’s already turned on). Others have asked about this and everyone jumps on some BS discussion of the battery. Thats not the concern.

My reason is simple. I often am up very early for travel or can’t sleep. When I unplug my phone by the bed, it lights up the entire room waking my wife. I want that to stop. It also lights up on planes during international flights when everyone is trying to sleep.

Answers?