Hello apple please help update my phone for me

Hi amankrado,

Welcome to the Apple Community.

We are all Apple users, like yourself in this community.

We cannot speak for Apple.

It is a good idea to back-up all the data on your iPhone before updating software.

Apple support does have articles online that may help:

If you need more space for an update on your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch - Apple Support

How to update to iOS 15 or iPadOS 15 - Official Apple Support

or

How to Update your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch - Apple Support

All the best :-)

See the articles below.

Get help with over-the-air iOS updates  -

Update – Can’t or can’t restore   -

Have you tried using iTunes on a computer or Finder if running Catalina or later to do the update?

Update software on iOS devices in iTunes on Mac. -

Phone, iPad, or iPod touch - Update with Finder.  *

iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch - Update with iTunes.  *

If you see an error when you update or restore your iPhone, iPad, or iPod    *

Updating iOS: common issues and solutions.  -

ASC YouTube for  how to update your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch to the latest version of iOS or iPadOS —wirelessly or using your computer.