Confused by sharing folder
My wife and I both show "Shared" on our finders, and we both have "File Sharing" checked on our "System Preferences/Sharing".
On my iMac, I can drag a file into "Shared" and there's a "Shared with Pat Shared by Me" folder that contains the file. On her iMac, I can't drag anything into "Shared" and I don't know where the file that I shared with her is. We have family sharing (She's the organizer).
I can copy files from my computer to hers using the finder to show both of our computers.
What should I see in the Shared folders? How do I put files in there to use them?
iMac 24″, macOS 12.4