it says Facetime waiting for others. She is not on Facetime with me.I cant contact her It says leave

Hi ChuckBerry333,

For help with making a FaceTime call, test the steps below found in the article here: Use FaceTime with your iPhone, iPad or iPod touch

"Make a FaceTime call 

To make a FaceTime call, you need the person's phone number or registered email address. There are a few ways to make a FaceTime call:

• In the FaceTime app, tap New FaceTime and type the person's phone number or email address. Tap the number or email address, then tap the Audio button  or   FaceTime.
• If you've saved the person's phone number or email address in your Contacts,3 you can start typing their name and tap the name when it appears. Then tap the Audio button  or  FaceTime.
• You can also start a FaceTime video call from your iPhone during a phone call. Tap the FaceTime icon in the Phone app to switch to FaceTime."

If you continue to have an issue be sure both of you meet the requirements outlined here: If you can't make a FaceTime call on your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch - Apple Support

Best.