How to get my x husband who’s notorious for cloning and hacking my devices and Apple account outta by Buisness for the rest of the long haul

I feel kinda violated in anything I attempt to do even if it’s as simple as looking up how to get from point a to point b …..it’s like he’s controls my life, even after he chose to and walked out on me after 14 years on my birthday kinda stuff and still plays with my mentality’ via device

I’m gonna elaborate he does have access to my phone which although we are separated; since he’s disabled, I feel obligated to idk attempt absolutely everything within my power to salvage what’s not really possible in reconciliation. Doesn’t stop him from fishing for my new codes after I reset my device, I am however finding all these new accounts I never created or have already signed up for unfortunately this is a gi-hugic turn off as far as remaining faithful to my one device saying as how 14 years of faithful and loyalty buy absolutely nothing. Except nerve racking heart break. And probably midlife- empty nest- mental breakdown