How to get Siri to default to third-party chat app?
I have a contact with whom I exchange hundreds of messages every day on Telegram. I've never used iMessage a single time in my life. And yet, if I ask Siri to "Send a message to X", it will always pick iMessage unless I explicitly request the name of the app. How do I change this behavior, so that Siri defaults to using Telegram instead of iMessage?
The internet is full of fluff pieces about how Apple supposedly added this feature in some previous version of iOS (14? 15?) after getting hit by EU and US antitrust litigation for this ****, and yet as of iOS 16 Siri still seems to be doing the wrong thing. Am I missing some super secret setting somewhere?
Edit: I tried deleting X's phone number from the contact just to see what would happen, and now Siri has the guts to just complain that "I don't have a phone number or iMessage address saved for X".... rather than just picking the literal single sole messenger that this contact has saved. Words cannot describe the amount of stupidity at play here.