You are pasting something that looks like reference to carrier lock.
Only the carrier that has the phone locked can unlock the phone for use with another carrier. This is not something Apple can do.
How to unlock your iPhone for use with a different carrier - Apple Support
Sounds like you have multiple issues going on here. And the information provided is not all that clear.
There are several different things that 'lock' or 'unlock' can mean.
With regard to your passcode, as others have commented, Apple cannot and does not lock you out. You (or Verizon) locks you out when you forget your passcode and enter incorrectly a certain number of times. So is this where it all started? You did not remember your iPhone passcode?
Do you know the Apple ID and credentials that your phone is signed into?
Has Verizon been your carrier the whole time you have owned this phone?
You mentioned 11 day wait.. Is this because you don't know your Apple ID credentials and started account recovery with Apple?
Did you sign into these forums using the same Apple ID?