I am not receiving ask to buy notifications at all

Hello yazan75,

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If you miss an Ask to Buy notification, you can find the request in Notification Center on your iPhone, iPad, iPod touch, or Mac. If you still don't see your Ask to Buy requests, check your Family Sharing settings, check which Apple ID you're signed in with, and make sure that you're on a supported device.

Kind regards!

There were a few steps online on how to get it fixed. I tried them all and couldn’t get it to work.

What worked for me was signing out and signing back in. Then I went to settings and searched Private Relay. I made sure my Private Relay was changed to “Maintain General Location”.

This is unhelpful. The OP is stating they are not receiving notifications at all, I am in the same boat. My child asks to buy something and there is no notification at all. I can make the request my self with her ipad and my phone side by side and the notice never comes. This worked perfectly last week.

on which device, the requesting device or the approving device, or both?

I’m the parent, I did it on mine. I guess it couldn’t hurt to do it on both. Just try yours first and if it doesn’t work, try the requesting device.