Hello pinkcupcakelady,
Welcome to Apple Support Communities! It sounds like you need help with restrctions. We completely understand why you'd reach out, and are happy to help.
It sounds like you may have not allowed those in the Allowed Apps. No worries! This article actually addresses how to allow and restrict apps.
Use parental controls on your child's iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch
You can restrict the use of built-in apps or features. If you turn off an app or feature, the app or feature won't be deleted, it's just temporarily hidden from your Home Screen. For example, if you turn off Mail, the Mail app won't appear on your Home Screen until you turn it back on.
To change your Allowed Apps:
- Go to Settings and tap Screen Time.
- Tap Content & Privacy Restrictions.
- Enter your Screen Time passcode.
- Tap Allowed Apps.
- Select the apps that you want to allow.
Please have a look and let us know if this helps!
Cheers!