First, I went to mail preferences and set the account to leave messages on ISP server so I was working with the same emails while doing the following:
Note to Old Toad: Rebooting in Safe mode did not change the the issue with loading content..
KMB_12. I set up another administrator account then set up my email account. The account immediately loaded the remote content.
Though not likely to be an issue because with the new log in mail functioned correctly, To eliminate a corrupted OS I started in recovery mode ran disc repair and reinstalled OS. The original log in still did not load remote content. I then did screen shots of the two email accounts info and compared the old to the new.
I noticed two things were different: The new account did not have any "favorite folders"; the old one did. There was no change after deleting the favorite folders. The other difference was: I noticed In the side bar I had added my Yahoo.com [I use to send faxes by email because my ISP email server does not publish the required spa and yahoo does] and Gmail accounts I set up to sync my calendar with my daughter's google docs shared calendar on her Samsung Galaxy A03s. I deleted both accounts. There's still about 2-3 second delay in loading the remote content. (Until last month I had multiple medical faxes and will go back to sending my daughter an "invite" from the calendar ap on my iMac since most of the dates I synced were related to the medical faxes) I have everything backed up to time machine and thought of transferring the files to the new log in but.....
Thank you both for your input that led to an improved function until I can afford to replace the Late 2015 iMac.