I am trying to cancel a couple of subscriptions from Apple, and I've followed their directions--BUT they have taken away the "CANCEL SUBSCRIPTION" option from everywhere. Does anyone else find this reprehensible?

If the option to cancel a subscription is missing, see the following excerpt from Apple Support article If you want to cancel a subscription from Apple - Apple Support

You might need to scroll down to find the Cancel Subscription button. If there is no Cancel button or you see an expiration message in red text, the subscription is already canceled.

Also, a subscription that is already cancelled will typically have wording in fine print similar to "Expires on [date]" rather than "Renews on [date].”