I disagree!
Minimising the capacity difference between Channel A (slots 1 and 2) and Channel B (slots 3 and 4) means that the capacity in GB of the memory modules to be installed in Channel A should match as closely as possible the capacity in GB of the memory modules to be installed in Channel B! If you would put the 16GB modules in slot 1 and 2 or in slot 3 and 4, you would actually do the opposite of what is recommended, i.e. you would be increasing the capacity difference between Channel A and B: 32GB in one channel versus 64GB in the other one...
In other words and in this case, and looking at the image in the reply above:
- put one 32GB memory module in slot 1;
- put one 16GB memory module in slot 2;
- put the second 32GB memory module in slot 3;
- put the second 16GB memory module in slot 4.
Because slots 1 + 2 make up Channel A and slots 3 + 4 Channel B, in this case both Channels have the same amount of RAM at their disposal (in this case, each channel has 48GB), which is exactly what Apple recommends by saying "minimise the capacity difference between Channel A (slots 1 and 2) and Channel B (slots 3 and 4). Also, I recommend putting the highest capacity memory modules (in this case the 32GB modules) in slots 1 and 3.
After installation of the memory modules, you can check if you did the right thing in the "Hardware > Memory" section of System Information (you find that application inside the Utilities folder on your iMac). I add a screen capture of my memory banks's layout to help you understand better (look at "Channel A" and "Channel B": the same amount of memory). Also know that Bank 0 equals Slot 1, Bank 1 = Slot 2, etc. In my case each Channel has 20GB at its disposal.