Refund request
There must be a way around this because I find it absurd that you can't cancel your refund request.
1.
If you have received an invoice from Apple, on every invoice from the Apple Store and/or iTunes Store always states what you have purchased (and/or concerns a subscription) and the amount.
Tap on Report a problem on the invoice.
Or try to -> Request a refund for apps or content that you bought from Apple.
Request a refund for apps or content you've bought from Apple – Apple Support (UK)
If you have requested a refund, you must wait until Apple has approved. Then you will receive a message from Apple.
Refunds are not guaranteed. For more information, see the Terms & Conditions.
2.
Check for sure the following Apple articles:
View your purchase history for the App Store, iTunes Store, and other Apple media services
How apps, content, and subscriptions from Apple are billed
How apps, content, and subscriptions from Apple are billed - Apple Support
If you see "apple.com/bill" on your billing statement
If you see "apple.com/bill" on your billing statement – Apple Support (UK)