Side notes:
You are using Chrome. Chrome has been known to be a resource hog. If you have lots of tabs open, each one may not float to the top of Activity Monitor, but they do add up. As it is EtreCheck says it is using 2.51GB of virtual memory:
Google Chrome Helper (Renderer) (30) 2.51 GB (Google LLC)
CleanMyMac is running. A lot of the volunteers in this forum do not like CleanMyMac, as it has been known to create problems of its own.
You are running Sophos Anti-Virus. Again, the volunteers in these forms have seen far more trouble caused by anti-virus packages, then they have ever benefited the users running them.
Why are you running fan control software:
com.crystalidea.macsfancontrol.smcwrite.plist
If you are taxing your M1 Max based Mac so badly that you need to play with the fans, there is something seriously wrong. Or is this left over from when you were running an intel Mac, and it came over via Migration Assistant?
MemoryCleanHelper - memory cleaner apps are almost never recommended. You have 32GB of RAM, and when you running memory cleaner, you force you Mac to access the disk more frequently. This slows your system down, and if it forces more writes, then you reduce the life of your SSD storage (all SSD/NVMe storage has a limited number of write cycles, and then a storage cell goes bad and needs to have a spare used in its place. SSD/NVMe devices have very complex algorithms to do load leveling so no individual storage cell gets too many writes, but when one becomes unreliable, a spare is substituted. But there are a finite number of spares, and if you intentionally increase unnecessary writes, that will just speed up the process of using up spares. Most SSD/NVMe consume storage will last years, but not all users behave like your typical consumer.
VPNs for anything except
- Required to access your companies internal network.
- You wish to geolocation shift, so you can watch those UK TV shows.
- You are in an unfriendly political environment, and it is the only way to get access to the outside world
If that is not your situation, and you think you are protecting yourself, then what you are doing is concentrating all your network traffic through the VPN service provider, which may sell your network accessing habits for additional revenue.
If you pay for your VPN, and your VPN provider has stated in writing that it does not keep logs, and does not sell your data, then it might be OK, but for the most part using a VPN, except for the above reason, is not really all that beneficial to you, as most network traffic today uses encrypted connections, and all your ISP can see is that you connected to site X, but not what you are doing on site X. All that using a VPN does is move who sees that you are accessing site X.
I'm seeing 2 things on your system that make me thing you have been using Migration Assistant for years, and just carrying software you installed years ago over to the new system.
- Flip4Mac
- Adobe Flash Player
I do not even know if Flip4Mac is still available. And Adobe Flash Player has been discontinued for years.
You might want to go through the EtreCheck output and do some house cleaning, as I'm sure there is stiff listed you forgot you even used years ago.