Message: Notifications have been silenced

I am the only one who sees the message that my daughter has silenced her notifications when I text. We have tested it from multiple phones. She does not have any focus modes on. The focus settings are NOT shared across devices. We have tried hard booting, deleting our contacts in each others phones and making sure IOS is up to date. My daughter has to be able to get my messages and I am beyond frustrated. Please Help!