How to update my iPhone to iOS 13?

Hello,

Here are two different ways to ensure the highest iOS that your device will support is installed on your device.

Update your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch wirelessly. Click here --> Update your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support

Here are instructions about how to update your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch with the Finder on a Mac computer --> Update your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch with the Finder - Apple Support

Your device will update to the highest version currently available that it will support.

We are guessing that you might have an iPhone 6 or iPhone 6 Plus.

These iPhone models cannot be updated to iOS 13, or any other version higher than iOS 12.x for that matter.