Hi raycerayman,
Welcome to the Apple (user-to-user) Community :-)
Re: "i dont have iphone or ipad with safari "
Seems Safari is installed along with each iPhone iOS or iPadOS upgrade.
Unless you actually deleted it, it may be still there, in your App Library.

How to: Find your apps in App Library on iPad - Apple Support
Eg: says:
"swipe left past all your Home Screen pages to get to App Library"
and
"You can add apps in App Library to the Home Screen"
Else : You might want to update / upgrade your devices to the newest available.
Update to the latest version of Safari - Apple Support
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Re: i cant seem to get into support on my ipad to ask questions about it :
Here's a link to Safari support webpage online:
There's a "Get Support" link at the bottom (online chat, phone, eMail etc).
Safari - Official Apple Support
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Re: "ipad says enter id and password then it says its wrong one"
If you have changed your password, you may need to log-out from the old one, and log-in with the new one. Else: You could try restarting your iPad, & try again.
Seems you used the correct Apple ID and password to log-in here.
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Re: it wont let me update my password which i know is correct
You might want to see if you can log-in to your Apple ID account online using the same login details you used to log-in here:
ie: you can check your Apple ID and password are working, and if so, check that your details are all up-to-date, or make changes.
Apple ID Log-in:
https://appleid.apple.com/
How to:
Get a verification code and sign in with two-factor authentication - Apple Support
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If it is necessary:
You can look it up: If you forgot your Apple ID email address or phone number - Apple Support
and
how to reset your Apple ID password: If you forgot your Apple ID password
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Re: "is talking to someone on phone my only option"
Apple ID support / help webpage (eg: online chat, phone, eMail etc,)
Apple ID - Official Apple Support
All the best :-)