Hi rose21forever,
welcome to the Apple (user-to-user) community.
Re: I can’t login to my account
Wondering if Apple Support's articles (links below) can help you :-)
Your Apple ID is generally an eMail address (in some countries may be phone number
What to do:
If you forgot your Apple ID email address or phone number - Apple Support
and
Here's how to reset your Apple ID password and regain access to your account:
If you forgot your Apple ID password - Apple Support
The Apple ID online account log-in web-page:
Apple ID Log-in:
https://appleid.apple.com/
If needed:
How to: Get a verification code and sign in with two-factor authentication - Apple Support
More support if needed:
Apple ID Support Web-Page:
NB: There is a "Get support" link at the bottom
Apple ID — Official Apple Support
or
See a list of Apple phone numbers around the world
Contact Apple for support and service - Apple Support
All the best :-)