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Hey there Snobunny416,

We aren't able to discern what the actual issue is from the details you provided so far, but we'd like to help however we can. From your post, it sounds like an Apple ID was set up using an email that you no longer use, and it was associated with an iPhone that you may no longer own.

Don't worry, we've got you covered! To locate your Apple ID and change your password, check out:

• If you've forgotten your Apple ID email address or phone number – Apple Support
• If you forgot your Apple ID password - Apple Support

If she would like to regain access to her account, but she's unable to change the password, account recovery can help: How to use account recovery when you can’t reset your Apple ID password - Apple Support

It's important to note:

"Before you start the account recovery waiting period, try to reset your password. 

• Learn how to reset your Apple ID password on a trusted device or through the Apple Support app on a family member’s iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch. You can also visit an Apple Store and ask to use a device on site.
• If you set up an account recovery contact, they can also help you reset your password. 

Use account recovery only as a last resort when you can’t sign in or reset your Apple ID password."

If you know the Apple ID but when trying to log in you receive an error regarding the Apple ID being inactive, we'd suggest reaching out to Apple directly for assistance using: Contact - Official Apple Support

Let us know if you have any questions.

Cheers!