How do i get the actual "physical" Apple credit card itself?

Sorry I thought you were referring to a link as is usually used terminology for a connection to a web page rather than to the instructions below from Request and activate a titanium Apple Card - Apple Support

Where do those instructions copied below first fail to work?

i.e., 1.) have you applied and been approved and is the Apple Card displayed in your iPhone Wallet app?

2) Can you see and tap the More button and then the Card Details button?

If you can do all of that and there is no "Get a Titanium Apple Card" option displayed, then Contact - Official Apple Support

From: Request and activate a titanium Apple Card - Apple Support

Before you request a titanium Apple Card, apply for Apple Card. If your application is approved and you accept your offer, you can request a titanium Apple Card.

1. On your iPhone, open the Wallet app and tap Apple Card.
2. Tap the More button , then tap Card Details .
3. Scroll down and tap Get a Titanium Apple Card.
4. Follow the instructions on your screen.

timbck2 wrote:

I went to the link and tried to follow the directions but there is no mention of how to request a physical card - no “Get a Titanium Apple Card” link anywhere on the page.

I never claimed that there was a “Get a Titanium Apple Card” link . You need to use an iPhone and follow the directions in Request and activate a titanium Apple Card - Apple Support

See the following Apple Support article for information on requesting a physical Apple Card: Request and activate a titanium Apple Card - Apple Support

There is no way that I know of to get the physical card if you don't have an iPhone.

I went to the link and tried to follow the directions but there is no mention of how to request a physical card - no “Get a Titanium Apple Card” link anywhere on the page.

I never said that you claimed there was such a link. Apple’s instructions (which I was following from my iPhone) say to click that link, but it doesn’t exist for me.