Hey Abstractman23,
We'd recommend reviewing this article for more information on replying in Mac Mail: Reply to, forward, or follow up on emails in Mail on Mac - Apple Support
"Reply to or forward emails
- In the Mail app
on your Mac, select a message in the message list. - To include just a portion of the original message in your reply, select the text to include.
- If you select the top message in a conversation, all of the messages in the conversation are selected.
- Move the pointer over the message header, then click one of the following buttons:
- Reply
to reply to just the sender. - Reply All
to reply to the sender and the other recipients. - Forward
to choose new recipients.
- You can add or remove recipients as needed.
- Add your text.
- If you included the original message, vertical bars (called quotation bars) may appear next to it.
- You can make your text appear as quotations:
- Add quotation bars to your text: Choose Format > Quote Level > Increase or Format > Quote Level > Decrease. This also changes the quote level at which selected text appears.
- Paste text as quoted text: Choose Edit > Paste as Quotation.
- If the original message contains attachments, decide whether to include them:
- Include attachments: Click the Include Attachment button
in the toolbar of the message window or choose Edit > Attachments > Include Original Attachments in Reply. - Exclude attachments: Click the Exclude Attachment button
in the toolbar of the message window or choose Message > Remove Attachments. - Choose attachments settings for all replies: Choose Edit > Include Attachments With Replies, then select an option.
- When you’re ready, click the Send button
.
If you prefer to always omit the original message from your replies, choose Mail > Settings, click Composing, then deselect “Quote the text of the original message.”"
If that doesn't help, we'd recommend contacting Apple Support for assistance here: Get Support
Thanks!