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Agreed, Absolutely ridiculous that this has not been addressed. I guess it meets Apple's sales model. Mett the average consumers needs and wants, but ignore any advanced need. I am under the assumption that, even though IDLE is SUPPOSED to do something, it doesn't make a difference in the number of connections, at all. This has been tested on two totally different host, and one controlled and maintained by a family number. The amount of connections Mail makes per account is out of this world and causes server wide problems.
I actually changed hosts and moved websites to address this problem and not have to resort to Thunderbird. I say resort, not because it is bad software, but because I want to all of my Apple software and hardware to play nice together, as all of us do, and is the reason most of us spend 2x$ for Apple gear. I had to move all of my accounts to Thunderbird again because my new host (HostGator) will shut my sites down while the two computers in my office access 4-5 accounts each.
I have visited and re-visted the Apple forums over the last couple years, waiting for a solution. I can't believe this. I guess I'll join the petition now. I feel bad for the people out there experiencing these issues, having no clue what is causing it, how to research it, or what to do about it.
Apple, please just fix it.