Here's how to check and enable iCloud syncing for the Find My app:
1. On both your iPad and iPhone, go to "Settings."
2. Tap on your name at the top to open the Apple ID settings.
3. Tap on "iCloud."
4. Scroll down to "Find My" and make sure it is toggled on for both devices.
Once iCloud syncing is enabled for Find My, your new items should automatically appear on both devices.
If the issue persists, try the following troubleshooting steps:
1. Restart both devices: Turn off your iPad and iPhone, then turn them back on after a minute. This can help resolve minor glitches.
2. Update both devices to the latest iOS version: Go to "Settings" > "General" > "Software Update" and check for updates. Install updates if available.
3. Disable and re-enable Find My on both devices: Go to "Settings" > your name > "iCloud" > "Find My" and toggle it off, then back on after a few seconds.
4. Remove and re-add the items on your iPad: If none of the previous steps worked, try removing the items from Find My on your iPad and re-adding them. This might force a sync with your iPhone.
If the issue persists, contact Apple Support for further assistance.