Photos still losing face tags, any help?
TLDR: Is there any way to force Photos to retain face tag information? Can I somehow extract all face tags and periodically check if they're still there and restore them whenever Photos has decided to do another genocide run on the family history?
--backstory--
I used to recommend Macs to family members for their intuitive use. Some of these (family members, not Macs) are reaching an age where their memory is failing them and they need to rely heavily on Photos to recognize grandchildren or remember life events. Given that small children all look alike when you're old it's vital to have the People feature work properly so you can keep the family branches and timelines apart, so I recommend religiously tagging every single face in every new photo imported into the Photos library.
For years now I've been getting reports of Photos accidentally losing (or deliberately deleting?) user-saved face tags, sometimes never, sometimes after years, sometimes after just a few days. Faces identified by Photos' AI are much more rarely affected than hand-tagged faces. This leads to people losing entire grandchildren because all they're left with are some baby pictures for a child about to finish school. Seeing your high tech expensive machine memory fail just as easily as your own head is a devastating experience, and I don't see how I can help.
The by far worst offenders are pet tags. Photos not actively recognizing pet faces is fair, that would need a completely differently trained AI. Deleting the tags is outright malicious, though, as to many people their pets are just as dear as human family, and since they tend to die more often, remembering them by watching photos of them is very important.
Children are also problematic, since their faces change a lot during childhood and adolescence. Photos tends to keep a handful of tags and just wipe years of history before and after. The photos themselves are all still there, of course, but how to look for them when you've forgotten the events to look into?
Apple doesn't seem willing and/or capable of fixing this, so is there an external solution to help Photos not lose face tags? Alternatively, is there a photos management application as easy to use as Photos but without a tendency to steal people's memories?
Mac mini, macOS 13.3