FaceTime is taking to long to load on my MacBook Air

Hi johnson96,

welcome to the Apple (user-to-user) Community.

Re: "FaceTime is taking to long to load on my MacBook air"

Wondering which 13" MacBook Air model you are using,

How to: Identify your MacBook Air model

and

whether you have tried updating to the newest compatible MacOS

What’s new in the updates for macOS Ventura says macOS Ventura 13.4

and

whether FaceTime is the only app that takes a long time to load.

Sometimes quitting FaceTime, restarting you Mac (Apple menu > Restart) then logging back in and re-opening FaceTime can help restore order.

You generally need a strong wi-fi signal in order to use FaceTime.

(Some of us prefer to use an ethernet cable to improve the connection)

Sometimes third-party (non-Apple) apps (eg: including ad-blockers, unnecessary virus checkers, cleaners and the like , even "Chrome" and VPN) can cause issues. 

Eg:

You might want to try turning off any such apps, and see if it makes a difference

and / or 

uninstall using the uninstaller from the developer, if you find they cause issues.

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Wondering if you have enough memory / storage on your Mac (at least 50 Gb free) 

for your Operating System to work smoothly.

How to check, and /or free up storage space on your Mac.

Free up storage space on your Mac - Apple Support

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Activity monitor on your Mac is a handy way to see which apps are using all the energy:

(For accurate info., if not using Ventura, choose your MacOS at the top of the article)

View energy consumption in Activity Monitor on Mac – Apple Support

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What to do: If an app on your Mac stops responding, closes unexpectedly or won’t open – Apple Support 

More support if needed:

FaceTime Support:

FaceTime - Official Apple Support

All the best :-)