SSL-ADT wrote:
This question has been asked before, but the answers provided don't match my Mac Mail reality.
Someone is sending me email with large characters, but upon replying, the characters I type are super tiny, about 5 or 6 px at the most.
What gives?
-Ron
100% as in all your incoming mail...or from select contacts?
You have no control of incoming email.
You can increase the size, if you do not see it add it in from Mail>View>Customize Toolbar

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