Hi ThymeDfarms
welcome to the Apple (user-to-user) Community
Re: "Apple Music extremely buggy"
Wondering if you are using the newest iOS version on your iPhone:
About iOS 16 Updates - Apple Support says iOS 16.5 is the latest.
Sometimes, as Apple adds features and make changes, our earlier ways of doing things may also need to change.
Re: "Is there a patch coming?"
As we are all Apple users, like yourself, in the Community, likely no-one here would have knowledge of what Apple intends.
Re: "Should I switch to something else?"
Entirely up to you, and whether or not you want to strengthen your patience, and your tolerance.
Re: "Any tips?"
Check through Apple support's latest "how to" / "Apple Music" articles for the methods Apple suggests:
Eg: Add and download music from Apple Music - Apple Support
or
Create a music queue
says you can either:
Play a song, then let Autoplay pick similar songs to play next.
or
queue up music that you want to play next.
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Also: for iOS 16 (or choose your iOS version at the top of the article):
Find new music
Add music and listen offline
Search for music
Create playlists
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If you wish:
Send feedback to those who work behind the scenes at Apple. They will likely not reply, yet your feedback will be received by those who can make changes. Feedback highlights which devices and which operating systems are experiencing difficulties. If others are also experiencing similar difficulties, we may see them addressed in an update.
Webform for feedback to Apple:
Feedback - Apple Music - Apple
More info / support:
Apple Music Support website:
Music - Official Apple Support
All the best :-)