Scam emergency contacts
My iPhone 14pro got stolen on 8th July in London and 5 days later my two emergency contacts received a message that my phone got connected to iCloud and location was found. I sensed it was a scam but the idea that the criminals logged in my Apple ID took over and I let my friend login. By doing this they were able to deactivate find my hence all good to go for them. My questions are: how did they manage to get the emergency contacts? Probably within the time I needed to activate the lost mode ? Also how did they manage to send a message from the Apple sender? I am very disappointed by the level of low security then in this case because it seems Apple is not secure as it claims! Lastly why when clicking on the page of How to activate Find My in the related articles you don’t add the one you sent me only after I got scammed? It is probably the most clicked page considering how many iPhone get stolen every day and Apple doesn’t worry to educate all its clients at all? I have not an IT master degree and chose Apple for its practicality and finding out that this phishing technique is on since 2019 but there is no much information around about it …. It’s just scary and disappointing. Lastly, if criminals deactivated find my why have I not received a notification? If anyone can let me know about my questions please I appreciate. Thank you
iPhone 14 Pro, iOS 16