How do I get preference on my Apple mac Ventura version

Settings for Ventura are available by going to  > System Settings. If you are looking for a specific setting, let us know and we would be happy to help.

If you are having trouble accessing System Settings or believe your Mac is not behaving correctly on start up, you can try booting into Safe Mode to see if there is software loading on startup that is causing a conflict.

Start up your Mac in safe mode - Apple Support

Are you talking about System Preferences?

If so, it has been changed to System Settings, which look more like Shttps://eshop.macsales.com/blog/84141-how-macos-venturas-system-settings-differs-from-the-previous-system-preferences/

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If you are talking about a specific applications preferences, we would need to know more about what App, and a lot would depend on whether anyone had experience with that app.